Is this normal or what?

I'm 28 and have been married for 4 years have no kids (dislike kids) I hate to clean i read men want a Traditional housewife now a days. I have hired a housekeeper just telling you i don't live like a slob. People tell me "Oh you will love kids and want to have them and You are a woman it's a Natural thing to clean and have kids". So.......am i alone or what. Also why should woman take care of men? Aren't they supposed to protect us? If a guy can't pick up his clothes how is he supposed to protect.